Squirting is not just the territory of porn stars intent on giving their audience a show. So whether or not you think the fluid being emitted from a squirter is urine or some other substance, it seems silly to disregard this pleasurable practice when you can embrace the potential of a truly mind-blowing sexual experience instead. If you want to make a girl squirt, you absolutely need to discuss it with her first.
For a lot of women, the idea of squirting bodily fluid all over a man is quite intimidating. Start off by reassuring her that squirting is incredibly natural and sexy. At the same time, be careful not to put too much pressure on her, because she will have to be relaxed in order to successfully squirt.
Frame it as a fun intimate adventure that will bring you closer together, no matter the outcome. So if you have a roommate, kick him out for the night. And by all means, tidy up before you initiate your squirting adventure. Dim the lights, keeping in mind that some people feel self-conscious beneath bright lights when naked. Consider a few scented candles.
Overall, pay attention to your surroundings more so than usual. When endeavoring to make a girl squirt, she must feel very relaxed and very turned on simultaneously, so foreplay is of the utmost important.
One way to arouse a woman is to touch her, but without getting too sexual. An oil massage is a great way to accomplish this. Rub coconut oil or baby oil all over her back, steering clear of her breasts and pussy for as long as possible. Tease her a bit, but concentrate on loosening up her muscles for a solid half hour to 45 minutes before you make your next move.
To get your sexual partner to squirt, you want to stimulate her g-spot in a very particular manner, triggering the release of female ejaculate. Whereas you might typically stimulate a woman by making the come-hither motion with two fingers inside the vagina, making her squirt requires a different deliberate motion. To make a woman squirt, you want to use your two middle fingers.
With your palm facing up, point your two middle fingers at a 45 degree angle towards the ground. Eventually, you can engage your entire arm in this repetitive movement. After a while, you want to go really fast—so fast that you end up exhausting yourself. You might even need to engage your other hand to help support the dominant arm.
Keep going—even with a dead arm if necessary. If she does squirt, reaffirm just how sexy the process was for your from start to finish. Tell her that you enjoyed giving her so much pleasure, and that the sight of her gushing fluids was a massive turn on.
Whatever the outcome, be sure to initiate post-coital cuddling and hold your girl tight so that she feels safe and secure. Horrible timing, huh? Well maybe not if we can undo the harm the anti-squirting article has caused. Several other resources say the fluid has been analyzed previously, and it contains high levels of glucose, the enzyme prostatic acidic phosphatase, and low levels of urea and creatinine.
This still makes female ejaculation different from urine, even if their study was not in agreement with other studies on the amount and types of chemicals all present in female ejaculate. This is by far not a conclusive study. There are many reputable sources which conflict with this newest study.
It seems like another attempt to make women feel ashamed or embarrassed of their sexuality. Articles such as what this website published make women feel ashamed or embarrassed about their orgasms, which can already be difficult for woman to have to begin with.
One of the reasons women struggle with orgasming is because they worry about how they smell, taste, or look. Now when an orgasm is feeling over-the-top amazing, and fluid is starting to gush out of a woman, she will become embarrassed, ashamed, and think she is just peeing, encouraging her to hold back when the feeling surfaces in the future. After writing my book, more men than women have approached me and wanted to know more about squirting. Men seem more excited about the book because they are learning how a woman works, particularly during sex.
Men are interested and excited about providing women pleasure. I encourage women to find out the enjoyment of a squirting orgasm for themselves. I was bent over the side of the bed and he was behind me. I moved one leg up on the side of the bed to get a better angle because he kept hitting a spot that felt really intense, but would miss it with the next stroke.
After a rapid succession of strokes hitting that intense spot I felt a really strong, but unfamiliar sensation and had the desire to push from the pelvic floor. I felt a sudden rush of liquid spill down my legs and the noises from him thrusting became much more squishy sounding. The first time it happened for me I had been masturbating only my G-spot for about an hour and I thought I felt something, so I sat on the floor in front of a mirror and watched myself do it again.
My boyfriend unlocked something inside of me the first time he fingered me, I had never produced a wet spot that big before. I felt like the sexiest thing alive when I sat on his face for the first time and he sat up afterwards just dripping from me, grinning ear to ear.
The sensation is different from peeing, there is a deep pressure that builds up and it feels differently than urine when it comes out. Sometimes it pours out, other times it squirts out, and then there are other times where he pulls out of me and THEN it comes gushing out.
This time I was wearing my menstrual cup, so there were no vaginal fluids coming out, and I could notice the tiny bit of fluid that shot from my urethra. It was a nice surprise. The first time it happened, I honestly did not know what happened, and thought I did pee.
My husband was the one who had to explain it. I squirt even after not being touched and when giving a blowjob. I think the rarity of it adds greatly to the intrigue surrounding it.
Before I ever participated in a woman squirting, I saw my share of it in porn over the years, and the physical response of the particular porn actress always captivated me. Almost like her eyes were rolling back in her head. In my mind, the ideal sequence of events was to: 1. Start with prolonged foreplay — going down on your woman, patiently easing her into the experience and possibly bringing her to orgasm this way ; then 2. If possible, make her squirt. Mostly because guys ask about it and I am like um? Who cares? I read something the other day about a girl surprising a guy with being a virgin right before they had sex, and they had sex anyways.
She bled and stained his mattress and he was upset about it. If something goes wrong, you both deal with it in a supportive way, those are the terms of having sex, for every person.
The mess factor. I think it can backfire at the same time that I know how it feels, cause I feel sexiest when the guy is having a great time. Learn more about Thought Catalog and our writers on our about page.
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