If you're new here, you may want to get my discreet newsletter to learn how to make your lover sexually obsessed with you and only you. Click here to get it. It's free. It's discreet. Performing a striptease for your man is a wonderful way to keep things interesting and fun for the 2 of you.
The most important part of stripping for your man is getting ready, so that the whole thing goes really smoothly and flows naturally.
The last thing you want to do is to be stumbling around in front of your man turning on the music and setting up a chair for him…. The Where — If your bedroom is big enough, then you should ideally strip for your man there as he will automatically associate it with sex and all things naughty, but if not, then your living room will have to do. What You Wear — Next, you need to think about what you are going to wear. Choose a pair of sexy stockings, bra and panties, that you know will turn your man on.
For your top, the easiest is something like a blazer that you can take off without much effort. The key when choosing your clothes is that your underwear can be super tight and sexy, but your outerwear needs to fairly loose and simple to remove. What shoes or boots you wear is truly up to you. If you want to give your lover back-arching, toe-curling, screaming orgasms that will keep them sexually obsessed with you, then you can learn these sex techniques in my private and discreet newsletter. You'll also learn the 5 dangerous mistakes that will ruin your sex life and relationship.
Get it here. Bright lights are out and subtle, subdued lighting is in. So if you have a dimmer, then you are in luck. If not, then you will need to turn off the light and use candles instead. Alternatively you can throw a sheet over a lamp to give the same effect just make sure not to start any fires! The last part of setting the mood is choosing the right music.
Do your best to find out what type of music really turns your man on. It could turn out to be some cheesy top 40 songs or even heavy metal. Whatever it is, try your best to find out what it is. First Time? It will help to make everything go smoothly. The last thing you are going to need is a chair for your man to sit in.
Okay, now that we have everything, time to learn how to actually strip for your man…. When you get there, push him down firmly into the chair so that he knows that you are in charge. Afterwards, slowly and seductively walk a few steps away from him making sure to accentuate your hips as you do. Then stop, look over your shoulder at him and lower your jacket to the floor.
Next, take a step back towards your man. Then put your hands on either side of your hips and slowly start to lower your skirt to the floor. If he tries to touch or grab you, then swat his hands away and wave your finger in his face. You can do this while facing him or while you have your back to him. Another very sexy move is to straddle one of his legs, sit down on it and seductively grind up and down it.
Once you are done doing this, again slowly walk away from your man. Stop when you are a few feet away and then slowly start to undo your bra with your back to him. Start by slipping the shoulder straps down before undoing it from behind your back. Sit down on his knee and start grinding on it again, and just go from there…. The first few times that you do strip for your man, you may them to be a little awkward and not go perfectly well.
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You can watch it by clicking here. Never in my life have I felt so confident in the bedroom.. We play fight and catch ourselves being completely inappropriate around others- even family members. Thank you very much. Best wishes for you in your daily and sexual life! Great to hear! Whats the best lube to use when you are trying anal for the first time and is there anything you can use as a numming agent? There are a number of different kinds though, oil based, water based, silicone base, etc. You must be a mind reader because this is exactly what I was looking for tonight.
Brilliant site, so many great ideas. He broke things off with me because i was too emotional. How can I get him back? I would do anything for him.
Hi Sarah, This is a tough one and sounds like more of a relationship question. My advice would be to talk to him about it. Hi Sarah, That sounds more like a relationship question. It could be any number of things Sean. Hi, quick question. Does it really turn a guy on to see a female masturbate? If I was to call my boyfriend upstairs and let him walk in to seeing me touching myself?
Many guys find this to be super hot, while some are indifferent and a few may not enjoy it. If you really want to know what your man thinks about it, then the best thing is to talk to him about it. Hey sean…so do you have any advice on how to give your man cock pops? Ps: I saw it at urban dictionary haha.
But if you are worried about doing it right, try performing a lap dance on your own to get an idea of how to perform it. The hottest part about stripping for your man is showing him that you want to do it for him. A sexy burlesque routine you make up is just fine. Sadly the night Mr. I love all of your emails, they have truly helped me in my relationship with my husband.
I have an idea i would like to share with you and your readers, im sure their guy will appreciate it as much as mine did. You use a grapefruit… take the grapefruit and cut off each end the pink grapefruits are the best because they are juicy then cut out a hole big enough for your guys penis, if u didnt make the hole big enough, its ok because u can use your fingers to make it bigger. Now before performing this technique tell your guy he needs to be blind folded because otherwise he will be looking at u very akwardly and wondering what u are going to do with that grapefruit.
Now start off by giving him a simple blow job, then slip the grapefruit on his penis and with one hand gently squeeze the grapefruit and use circular motions and with the head of his penis continue with your blow job. U can at this point tell him to remove the blind fold, it feels so good to the guy he wont ask u to stop. My husband said it feels like getting a blow job and fucking at the same time. He said its mind blowing. It was a wild experience for us, and i know your readers will enjoy it too. Laura P.
WE are still waiting to hear about the bad boys bible. Looking forward to it. Thanks a million Sean. Imagining having some acid juices dripping on my pussy after some action, I think that might really burn… I assume the texture might feel great for him, but these juices???
How do I get him to be creative sexually without always giving him step by step instructions? I love ur site, ur emails.. I have learned so many kool techniques that my friend njoy.. Thank u.
Also thank you. Thru the bad girl bible My man loves phones sex and loves to see me masturbate. Im cumming up short though on. Sexy phones sex talk.. Moaning and simple phrases invade my mind. I feel dumb. Your email address will not be published.